Friday, December 30, 2005

Five Books I Read In 2005

I don't always read newly released titles, and it is obvious I am developing a taste for history, especially books about WWII.
1. We Die Alone, David Howarth
2. Ghost Soldiers, Hampton Sides
3. Franklin and Winston, Jon Meacham
4. Black Hawk Down, Mark Bowden
5. BLOG, Hugh Hewitt

Thursday, December 29, 2005

Ten Things About Having A Larger Family

1. We have to drive bigger 15 passenger vans or Suburbans
2. Eating out gets expensive very quickly
3. We need two hotel rooms
4. The food bill is getting pretty significant
5. Storage of children’s clothes, school materials, bicycles, and such requires lots of space
6. People will look at us and ask impolite questions (“Are they all yours? Don’t you know what causes that?)
7. We don’t need much external entertainment – we have lots right here in the home
8. Quiet is a rare commodity
9. Our marriage is not so easily nurtured as it once was
10. Joy is a constant – these children are precious gifts!

Wednesday, December 28, 2005

Thoughts About The "Little Things"

Today a thought about God's sovereignty.

In "Apollo 13," scene 8, there is a moment in which the main capsule's power is shut down and the men are moved to the LEM. Their lives were now controlled, to a degree, by the good folks in Houston. These three are powerless, literally, to do anything about their immediate circumstances.

This reminds me of a point I read the other day with my son, from the shorter catechism, about the tension many feel when thinking about God's control over ALL creation. This includes the "over-all" picture, and encompasses the "small things" as well as the "big" things of life.

"In other words, the 'big' things really depend on the 'little' things. If the little things are not under control, the big things cannot be either."

The objections to this doctrine, including the argument that this means men are but pawns on the chessboard, or are reduced to helpless robots, were answered simply:

We know from the Bible that we are responsible. We know from the same Bible that God does control us, so that He also determines what we do. So we accept this teaching because it is the teaching of the Bible, and not because we can explain it.

Application: Today I want to practice "powering down," as the astronauts did in the movie...let go of any sense that I am in control of my life, and place my day in God's hands, into His control. I desire to acknowledge His sovereignty in all of life, including the small things, and let Him work as He sees fit in our lives.

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For your reference, here's the point from the catechism:

Q.11. What are God's works of providence?
A. God's works of providence are, his most holy,(a) wise,(b) and powerful (c) preserving (d) and governing (e) all his creatures, and all their actions.(f)

(a) Ps. 145:17
(b) Ps. 104:24
(c) Heb. 1:3
(d) Neh. 9:6
(e) Eph. 1:19-22
(f) Ps. 36:6; Prov. 16:33; Matt. 10:30

Thursday, December 22, 2005

His Coming Changed Everything

Year after year, every December I turn to many wonderful recollections as a child. I enjoy seeing the hundreds of “Kodak moments” associated with Christmas which are etched upon my mind. Truly, a special time of year.

Invariably, too, thoughts about that first noel occupy my heart. And nearly every year I turn to a favorite author, Frederick Buechner. Many years ago a friend gave me a devotional by this good writer. “Listening To Your Life” is a compilation of Buechner’s works, broken into bite-size pieces for daily consumption and enjoyment. He is a thoughtful writer, and one who prompts many thoughts and leaves a good taste in one’s mouth.

Here’s part of the entry for December 26, showing what Buechner about the birth of Christ:

…a great many biblical scholars would agree with the skeptics that the great nativity stories of Luke and Matthew are simply the legendary accretions, the poetry of a later generation, and that were we to have been present, we would have seen a birth no or less marvelous than any other birth.

But if that is the case what do we do with the legends of the wise men and the star, the shepherds and the angels and the great hymn of joy that the angels sang? Do we dismiss them as fairy tales, the subject for pageants to sentimentalize over once a year come Christmas, the lovely dream that never came true? Only if we are fools do we do that, although there are many in our age who have done it and there are moments of darkness when each one of us is tempted to do it. A lovely dream. That is all.

Who knows what the facts of Jesus’ birth actually were? As for myself, the longer I live, the more inclined I am to believe in miracle, the more I suspect that if we had been there at the birth, we might well have seen and heard things that would be hard to reconcile with modern science. But of course, that is not the point, because the Gospel writers are not concerned primarily in the facts of the birth but in the significance, the meaning for them of that birth, just as the people who love us are not really interested primarily in the facts of our birth but in what it meant to them when we were born and how for them the world was never the same again, how their lives were changed with new significance. Whether there were ten million angels there or just the woman herself and her husband, when the child was born, the whole course of history was changed. That is a fact as hard and blunt as any fact. Art, music, literature, our culture itself, our political institutions, our whole understanding of ourselves and our world – it is impossible to conceive of how differently world history would have developed if that child had not been born.

I believe in the biblical account of Jesus’ birth and the details presented to us details recorded by Matthew and Luke. They gave us a glimpse into what transpired two thousand years ago, and how the Messiah entered into this world.

Having said that, here’s why I like Buechner’s emphasis on the meaning of Christ’s birth: there is an inescapable conclusion one reaches about Jesus’ humble beginning, and to the life he lived on earth. And that is this: He left an indelible mark on everything. On everyone. Believe Him or not, He changed the world. Even skeptics acknowledge this every Christmas season when they call upon the world to peace, to give generously, to practice love.

This was Christ’s message. This was His life, His death, His resurrection.

The force of Buechner's words bear repeating: "...when the child was born, the whole course of history was changed. That is a fact as hard and blunt as any fact..."

It was real. More than a dream. He was - is - a world-changer. How has He changed your life?

Saturday, December 10, 2005

Just A Fire

It was a causal conversation. One of those “how’re you doing?” calls, which I try to make in the midst of busy days at work. I know she has had an even busier, less predictable day at home with the kids, regardless of how smooth things are going there or how hectic things are for me. So, when I had a few minutes, “I just called to say I love you” (to quote a song line by Steve Wonder).

After a bit of chatting, she suddenly, but quite calmly, announced that she had to wrap up the call, because one of the children reported to her that there was a fire. “Something’s burning!” was what I heard one of them say in the background. “OK, goodbye.” That was the unceremonious way she concluded our conversation.

I hung up, thinking that a busy Mom is used to many things, from stopped up drains to small fires in the kitchen. She has had both, and many other household calamities. This was surely nothing to get too excited about.

“Well, she can handle it, however bad the situation is. She’ll call with an update if this is a bad fire.” I walked out of my office and mentioned the circumstance to my assistant, who was amazed at how this news of a fire at home had not rattled me. Over the years I’ve learned that my wife will let me know if an emergency arises. Otherwise, she will certainly solve the problem. Indeed, she did not call back, and I was correct -- this was one of the more routine fires. Later I learned that the kids were making some craft in the oven, and some bit of spillage had ignited. Not a biggee. Thank goodness!

So it goes in much of life. We occasionally overreact to things that aren’t really a big deal. Not a life-threatening matter, not a significant loss or injury. Just stuff. And as a friend observed, “if money can fix it, it really isn’t a problem.”

Good advice. And a reminder about what is really important, and how I need to keep perspective.

Now, I wonder if that fire extinguisher is still in the kitchen cupboard, and if it still works…

Friday, December 09, 2005

Parenting Tips: Raising A Rude Child

Catherine Seipp writes about an incident that made her pause. A hateful, liberal, "Bash Bush" moment caused her to think that some parents are really messing up their children:

My sister has a new project that involves buying me various t-shirts she thinks express my bossy inner personality. Recently she got me one that says, "Stupidity Is Not a Crime, So You're Free to Go."

Now I don't normally wear t-shirts with slogans on them outside the house. Too corny, like putting emoticons or "LOL" in email. But this shirt is nicely cut and since I hate shopping, lately I've been running out of clothes. So not long ago I threw it on when I dashed out for a quick lunch and a movie.

There I was, eating a hotdog in the sunshine at an outdoor L.A. mall, when a mother passing by with a small child smiled, hesitated for a moment, and then volunteered: "I'd like to send that shirt to our president!"

"Well," I said pleasantly, "I wouldn't, I guess, since I voted for him." (I wish I'd thought to add perkily, "I'd like to send it to Cindy Sheehan, though!" but my mind was in a hotdog-induced funk.)

"Oh..." she said, flabbergasted.

"That's OK," I added. "But you should know that not everyone is on the same side politically."

At this point, her son, about four years old, began a pantomime of stomping on ants as he yelled, "Stomp Bush! Stomp Bush! Stomp Bush!" Evidently he'd been trained to do this, like an organ grinder's monkey, whenever the word "president" is mentioned.


Ouch. Let's hope most parents are doing better than this.

Here's the full article.