Five Minutes, That's All

In fairness, I first heard of this meaningful way to spend good time with our kids from Joe White, an incredible man who owns and runs Kanakuk Kamps.

Today in a conversation at the office I was reminded about the idea. Here it is. And it is so easy for parents to do.

A co-worker, Rob, has five kids. He is a busy guy. He does something at home that works well in deepening family relationships. It helps him connect with his children. Spends just five minutes each night sitting on each of his children's bed, asking about their day and about tomorrow.

It takes Rob about half an hour each evening to do this. He hears all sorts of good stuff. And then he affirms and says a short prayer for that child. Tells him or her why he loves them (you are a gift from God). Joins them in thanking God for a good day, in asking God for grace or help for the next day.

Five minutes of one on one time with each child. How they must welcome that interaction. Rob likes it too! Those kids will remember that time with much fondness, no doubt. They'll likely repeat the process with their own children in a couple of decades.

What a gift to the next generation and beyond.

I like that idea. Think I'll try it tonight.