Preparing for Adolescence

If your child is approaching the teen years, you really ought to consider at least a couple of things in helping them make the transition to adulthood. The old stereotype of 14 year-olds with an attitude disrupting the family and causing conflict is just that: a stereotype. Your child doesn't have to fit that image. You can help him or her effectively prepare for the teen years.

I am a huge believer in Dr. James Dobson's "Preparing for Adolescence" audio and workbook materials. I have used these resources with great satisfaction twice, once with each of my older boys. If you want to make a great connection with your child, one that will continue throughout their teen years, then get the book and CDs.


Dr. Dobson's approach is to help pre-teens prepare for the turbulence of adolescence by talking through the impending changes they will experience, physical, emotional and intellectual. His sage advice is spoken directly to the child, and his straightforward delivery of sensitive topics will help your pre-teen know better what to expect in the coming years. Key to using this material is going through it together on a special weekend getaway. There is an audio resource that details how to go about doing that. Listen and learn. Then do!

Next time: An exercise to encourage the next generation.